living on your own) and be somewhat ambitious, a Korean man will not.Most Korean men are okay (and even prefer it) if you’re shy and let him talk, pretend to be ‘dependent’ on him for affection or guidance and be more family-oriented than career-oriented.Most Korean men value their family wishes and gender roles.When it comes to family they heavily influence who he will be in a relationship with.Now while you might start getting really excited by this prospect, this particular guy has probably gotten freaked out.At this point, he’s afraid that everything he said in the beginning has led you to believe that you guys are a couple and he starts acting in a way that shows you this is not the case.
They say that The reason for it is that their role and yours changes depending on your relationship situation.If you want to turn on a guy, you need to become more desirable by him. If he desires you, he absolutely will get turned on by you.The more he desires you, the more he’ll get turned on by you.As a girlfriend he’ll treat you a certain way (nicely at first) but once you get married the roles will change and you can So a Westerner would either date more casually or if he’s a boyfriend he will live in with you. They’re not used to ‘casual dating’ as a Westerner would be (although that’s changing.) You can also expect him to not live with you even though you’re his girlfriend.The reason is that Koreans only live together once they’re married.
He cancels plans, he goes MIA for days at a time, he acts distant.