Write to people who are looking for someone like you.
If she can’t see what you really look like, you’re not going to get her phone number.2.
Not only will this lead to inevitable disappointment for your date, it will also end with inevitable embarrassment on your part when your date walks out on you, comments on how much weight you’ve gained or hair you’ve lost since you took the photo on the site, or asks you where the tattoo went (this is an actual story I was told..apparently a guy that the storyteller went on a date with had Photoshopped a tattoo onto his arm in order to strike up a conversation with the girl, who liked tattoos…she was not amused when she found out).When you’re dating, the person you choose actually has some say in the matter. While you are waiting for her reply, go on with your busy life.Before you take the time to compose your message, look through her profile and try to view things from her perspective. Of course you’re great, but are you a great match for her? Don’t look at her profile to see if she has logged in.has “Reverse Match” and “Mutual Match” search features to identify the people who are looking for someone like you. “Props on your (mostly) sane Match Question answers.” sane? It is quite alarming to open an email thread and see several unread messages from a person you barely know!But if you insist on writing to those who aren’t, keep in mind that the site also has email filters to automatically send your messages to a special folder for unwanted mail, based on your age, height, location, and a few other criteria.3. Take the time to compose your thoughts into one email, rather than several separate messages.
In the real world, this usually amounts to how you dress, how you style your hair, how polished your shoes are, etc.